Meeting new people is exciting, but you should always exercise caution when meeting people for the first time.  Use your best judgment and put your safety first, whether you are exchanging initial messages or meeting in person. While you can’t control the actions of others, there are things you can do to help you stay safe:

1. Online Safety

• Create a new Email Address

When first registering do not use your usual email address. We strongly recommend that you create a new unique one on Gmail, for exclusive use on this site.

• Your Username

Choose a new unique user name that has never been used before. It should not be traceable to you, for example, not your nickname.

• Your Password

Choose a new unique password that you have never used before and cannot be traced back to you. It should be memorable and contain upper and lower case characters, numbers and symbols.

• Your Account Statement

If you choose to become a full member of our website, our name will not appear on your statement when you pay.

• Never Send Money or Share Financial Information

Be mindful of romance scams

• Protect Your Personal Information

Never share personal information, such as your, home or work address, or details about your daily routine.

• Stay on the Platform

Keep conversations on the Indulgent Affairs website while getting to know people. 

• Report All Suspicious and Offensive Behaviour

When someone’s crossed the line and we want to know about it. Here are some examples of violations: 

• Requests for money or donations
• Harassment, threats and offensive messages 
• Inappropriate or harmful behaviour during or after meeting in person 
• Fraudulent profiles
• Spam or solicitation including links to commercial websites or attempts to sell products or services

You can report any concerns about suspicious and offensive behaviour by emailing info@indulgentaffairs.com. For more information, go to our Community Guidelines.

2. Meeting in Person

• Don’t Rush 

Take your time and get to know the other member(s) before agreeing to meet. Don’t be afraid to ask questions to screen for any red flags – be sure.

• Meet in Public and Stay in Public

Meet for the first few times in a public place: never at your home or any other private location. If pressured to go to a private location, end the date.

• Know Your Limits 

Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol: they can impair judgment and alertness. Know where the drinks come from and know where it is at all times; only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server. Many substances that are slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odourless, colourless and tasteless. Also, keep your phone etc, on you at all times. 

• If You Feel Uncomfortable – Leave

You can report any concerns about suspicious and offensive behaviour by emailing info@indulgentaffairs.com. For more information, go to our Community Guidelines.